When you are reactive, she closes.
When you shut down she feels alone.
When you carry resentment, she feels the distance.
AND when you shift your energy everything shifts
When you become centred, she feels safer.
When you communicate with truth she softens.
When you lead yourself, she trusts you again.
This work is not about fixing her.
It is about becoming the man who brings clarity, steadiness, honesty and presence back into the relationship.
That is when the pattern finally breaks.
That is when connection returns. That is when the relationship resets.